Good points MrsNop. Especially the part about "immature".

Zuzu, when you post, it comes off like a high school/college R drama. NOT a M. I don't want to offend, just state how I interpret your posts. That is also why I referenced my chaotic college R. I can't imagine still living it. You are, in a sense, and I feel for you. BUT you are adding fuel to this fire. Even back in the day, I NEVER told my girlfriends about half the stuff that was going on in my R and now that I am M, it is definitely none of their business. You need firmer boundaries in that area. Your H is losing respect for you on that front, with just cause I'd say. Stop talking to everyone who will listen. Talk to HIM.
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