I think Jazz is right, you have to wait her out. Just because the jealousy bug crept in does NOT mean she really wants to make things work. Just be careful. If you do want your W back, keep doing what you're doing, don't worry about her, let her do her thing, let her come to you. Then together set some ground rules - counseling, time together, budgets, kid time, whatever. Don't leave any of that stuff to chance.
Good luck!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...