zuzu wrote: "He has since TOTALLY relaxed about Joe and shook his hand, allowed me to visit them, etc. without making him the center of the problems"

Obviously, hubby has the capacity to change.

So, what do you think you can do to demonstrate your commitment to hubby on an ongoing basis?

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.