You'll be fine. Trust Jazz, it will be good for you both.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
I know, just hate the reasoning behind it. It is going to be good for both of us now and in the long run. I still truly believe she wants me, but wants me to find myself first. That is something that has been missing in my life a long time, I do not even know who I am.
Last edited by 789; 06/27/0705:40 PM.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I know, just hate the reasoning behind it. It is going to be good for both of us now and in the long run. I still truly believe she wants me, but wants me to find myself first. That is something that has been missing in my life a long time, I do not even know who I am.
Can you see the positive message in what you just typed? How much better will your M be if you manage to do that?
I keep telling myself, "What is 3 months, 6 months, or even 12 months to me if it means I'm a better man and more capable of leading my family in the right direction? What is a few months if my R with my W is infinitely better, happier and fulfilling for both of us???" It's NOTHING! It's a blessing.
I think you're on the right track 789, give yourself 1-2 more days of darkness and you'll start to get used to it and you'll start to look at yourself in a much better light (if that's possible in the dark )
Keep it up!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Yes I know this is a positive. I also know it is the right thing to happen now.
Will it be worth it, that is what I am hopping, as I have nothing else to lose, so yes it is worth it. Pretty sure this funk will dissappear in another day or so.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
That's about how long it has taken me after I see my W. 2-3 days and I'm good. It'll work the same for you, if you go about your business without obsessing.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
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