You are correct. You have a unique perspective in going through this but on the other side. I will definitely take your advice on the MC. It is invaluable to have some insight into what she is thinking and why. Sometimes, at least from where I am, it is difficult to understand what she wants me to do. I do have a problem with always trying to "fix" things and I just have to remind myself that it is going to take time. I really do love her, maybe more than she realizes right now, and want to get back to the way things used to be.
Thank you again for your help, as you seem to be in the same position as my wife and every little bit of information helps me.
