I wished I could help, I am going through a similiar situation. My wife is having an affair (she doesnt call it an afair, just a friendship claiming there has been no-sexual interaction) but regardless has told me she is not in-love with me anymore and has feelings for this other man, who was a friend of mine, WAS. She wants to move out, I know is scared of being the bad guy and moving in with him, not only to look bad to everyone in our small town but mostly for our kids and because she knows that would hurt me. We cant afford for her to get her own place, cant afford to sell our house with the market the way it is. So meanwhile we are stuck living in the same home, and me knowing while I work all day she is talking to him and for all I know seeing him. Its a true train wreck and I am stuck. I love her with all my heart and wished i could stop this nightmare.
H-40 W-33 Married 13.5 yrs S18, S11, D15, D9 W asked for D on 6/05/07
