I can see what you ar all saying, and the merit it it,BUT I know that I share some of the blame. I guess though he didn't ahve to jump inro someone elses knickers - it is certainly NOT something I would do. Its just on the bad days it seems overwhelming whilst on the good days I am all not more rational about it.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength