How long does Replay last?

[still hoping]

Feeling a bit flustered, but it's ok. Personally, I'm doing well after having made up my mind to leave. The problem is that I am now on the receiving end of a whole lot of information that our friends are now starting to share with me because they are genuinely concerned about how H is messing up his life. It's no longer just about our relationship - his financial situation is suffering to the point that he may have to declare bankruptcy and he's not even taking it seriously. Friends all separately have bits and pieces of the puzzle, but I now know almost all of what's going on with him and how he's even screwing his friends over. I've had to let friends know other facts I've learned so that they are protected financially, otherwise, I would stay out of it.

What I am struggling with now is that I worry his family will take a pretty hard hit if they decide to bail him out. Everything he's doing is without question for OW, who he has given control of the accounts too - she is filtering money out of the company and using it as her own personal expense account and H doesn't seem to care. Borrows more money to cover for it (tens of thousands). It's truly unbelievable what he's doing for her. She's got her claws in deep. I think I've decided to just let it go and hope that he really hits rock bottom so that he realizes what a fool he's been and how he's lost everything. Me telling the family would only make them question my motives. But in this case, I think tough love may be the answer and it's a lesson he's going to have to learn the hard way.

*big sigh*