1) Discover positive affirmations - find 3 things good about you and tell yourself about those things DAILY (UA says 10, do that! )
2) Seriously, grow a pair. If you say you don't have nads again, I will fly down to NM and bitch-slap you silly! I'm not kidding, I have 2 free tickets on SW, I can be there tomorrow.
3) You learn self-esteem and more importantly SELF-RESPECT by acting the part! Believing the part, BEING THE PART! BE A MAN!
4) I guaran-damn-tee you your W will NEVER be attracted to this NM that you're showing in here. Maybe you're just venting, but as I've posted several times "As a man thinketh, SO IS HE!" If you think you're a wuss, guess what - you're a wuss and your W does NOT want to be married to a wuss. If you think you're confident and able and VALUABLE, then YOU ARE! THAT is attractive to your W. Get it?
So, stop whining, stop worrying, stop trying to control, stop defining yourself by your W. Right now STOP! If you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts about this again, just say STOP! Say it again - STOP!!!!
I swear if you come in here and say you can't do these things, you may as well go get the D yourself because your W WILL NOT WANT YOU AS YOU ARE.
Sorry for being so blunt, but you have got to be a man now. OK? Cool
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
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