All I can say to everyone is time and patience. I may have another 2 years or so to wait but my marriage is worth it.
T2,
You're an awe inspiring person. Sometimes I wish that I'd had more patience and not pushed my ex to make a decision. Those are usually the times when I remember the man he was....
I'm still not sure if it was MLC or the results of relapsing to addiction to RX meds after 16 years clean.... maybe a combo of both. I tend to think maybe MLC as he's met and married someone all with 6 months. And all this and not even a year had past since he divorced me. It's been a hell of a struggle and a huge test of my strength, sanity, and faith. But I'm holding fast to that God works all things out for our good.
The fact that your H can't talk openly with you really bites.... but if he hasn't tried to move forward towards D says to me that something is being worked out in him. Again your patience and commitment to stand is amazing!!!!
~lost
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
