Things work in mysterious ways. That is why I told you to just sit back and not keep asking your wife questions or starting things. It takes time. The more you hound them, the longer it will take. When you keep bringing up things to them, it continuously keeps them going down that confusion path. Let them figure things out on their own. They need to do this at their own pace.
I was never one to have patience before but I do now (with certain things)
