Easier said than done, but I will try and focus on me and my daughter for the time being and try not worry about H or the M.
All of this baggage is draining and the fact that I feel displaced right now and don't really have a "home base" is getting to me. None of this is routine so I am really thrown off kilter anyway. Add that to all of the things I am feeling and its a recipe for disaster. I will try and not assume what he is thinking but I can't help but feel the sting of him being so bitter and cold.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.