My 2cents Quote: "How can one not take it personally when your H has told you that it is 'your fault' that it happened??"
It's kind of like when you are pouring a glass of water. Somebody says somthing to you and ya splll it. The fisrt thing that comes out of your mouth? "See what ya made me do?" NO he spilt the water. you may have distracted him but he did it.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know