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Originally Posted By: Rob1231:

My answer is: I AM planning to change careers, but being the analytical type I am, I'm working on figuring out what I want to do instead.

In her mind, that's just me being stagnant and not strong enough to pull the trigger. She's not entirely wrong - it IS scary - but she's also not entirely right. I will get there, in my own way and my own time.


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Originally Posted By: SD:

Okay. This is what I see...I see Rob's plans all in his head while Rob's W makes assumptions...because she knows old Rob...and because New Rob isn't communicating with his W.


I have to agree with SD Rob. As one technical type to another, one of my big failures was not letting my former W be involved with my planning. My INTJ personality kicked in: I went off to my cave and planned away and when I ran into problems with my planning or in executing my plans I agonized internally instead of sharing and asking her help.

See if you can get her involved. Get her opinions when you can. A career change is huge - plan it together.

Beside the career what other areas do you see need attention? It may help to list them.


Jeff

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