I have always been an independant woman. I need something done I do it. I know H admired that about me. H is not the type to have anyone needing him. I think thats why he runs when the things get tough or is running from the the R of the kids too which he kida agreed about that at the begining. The only "need" I haev is finicial right now and I am thankful he is still paying the house and it's utilitites. We are'nt legally seperated and as he mentioned (which I think these wrods came from MIL)that at least he did not go "crazy" like some men do when they leave for OW and let the house and all else go to hell.
I also appreciate when here lately he comes over on a tuesday nite, he will pull the trash out for me or form time to time he will have a coworker freind come over and mow the lawn. I let him know I am thankful.
H does notice the changes in the house and will say so. Like I finally (don't know why it took so long) but I put away all his bathroom things that were in the medecine cabinet and his toothbrush & I put it under the sink. H asked why and I said you don't live here and I need the space. The other day he opened the freezer and said it was never so full when he was there??
I am enjoying maybe a little too much my own space?? No I think I am jsut starting to detach again thats all.
