Thank you all for the advice about the family situation. Perhaps it would be a good idea to ask her family to just try and back off a bit and let me try and work on things from here. The problem is that they are worried about her and her most recent behavior. She has not been eating right, has lost a ton of weight, and is not really taking care of herself. She is drinking a lot more than she has in the past also. But I will ask them to trust me to try and handle it the best I can.
WAW1978 it is good to hear that there is no other man in your situation, and you are still saying the same things as my spouse. There has not been confirmation in my situation that there is another man, just little signs here and there that make me think there is. My Wife denies it to everyone who asks her. (none of those being me) And I do think that she deep down wants things to work out but is just afraid that things won't really change for the long run. I know the changes I have made have really surprised her and quite possibly took her off guard and put at least some doubt into her mind that leaving is the right thing to do.
Do you think I should bring up going to MC again? I don't want to push her on this issue- one of her complaints about me was that I was too controlling. I just really want this to work and want to do everything that I can to try and help it along.
Thank you all for taking the time to read my thread and offer advice/support. And I also cannot just chalk up the theme at church this week to mere coincidence. I believe deep down that this is supposed to work and I take it as a sign from God, as I was finding my strength wavering quite a bit last week. It just gave me a shot in the arm so to speak and I believe that He is telling me not to give up.
