Actually, I did get him cards from all of us. I got him a card from each of the girls and one from me ,where he even said oh I got one from mommy?

When he sat down to eat I offered him more salad since I had almost finished it and I did not expect for him to eat my food. I will not wopship him like I use to though. My family acknowledges how I use put him up in a pedestal all the time. His needs caem first all the time and I would always tip toe around his moods so as not to make him angry-nope not anymore. I am enjoying the peace that surrounds my home now. I don't depise him ,but I realize I will definately survive without him. HEck I maybe better off. I am tired of accomadting his needs all the time and he still does not get the concept I use to tell him about that M is about compromise BOTH WAYS.