I try to keep him involved in the kids lives. Sometimes I don't know whether to inform him of things or to just let it be. Sometimes I feel like he chose to leave so if he wants to know what is going on with them then they can tell him. Then again, I feel like he didn't choose to leave, it was the MLC that made him leave and he has a right to stay informed about things.
The funny thing is sometimes he will tell me that he doesn't live at the house anymore so he has no say so in what goes on. Then all of a sudden he says he pays the house payment so what goes on is his business. I am all for him knowing what is going on but I never know when he is going to want to know or when he is going to make me feel bad and tell me he doesn't care. I guess for him to step in and help with this, he does care.
He could just ignore it and tell me it was my problem. Why all of a sudden does he care what goes on at the house? I stay so confused.
