No need to apologize. And don't get me wrong -- I'm sure that SHE would tell you all of the things that you said, but I'm just crying "b.s." on all of it with her. In fact, during our big fight on Saturday, she said, when confronted by me once again about the affair, "This isn't about that, I've been unhappy for a long long time, you KNOW that."
To which I calmly said "Well, no, wife, I WOULDN'T know that, because you never had the decence to TELL me you were unhappy, and regardless, it doesn't give you the right to have an affair and hurt me and our family this way."
