Apologies if my words came across the wrong way. I do agree that what this guy is doing is wrong. I guess just having been there myself making the same mistakes, I can see reasons why people would do things that don't have anything to do with maliciousness and thus I perhaps have a little too much sympathy. But this guy may be more of a blackfoot OM, I don't know. You know a lot more about him than I do.
And I agree, the years of neglect (despite all the comments that we guys have been engaging in unattractive behavior) followed by the apparent ease in which she has fallen into an R with OM has to be very painful for you. I am very sorry this has all happened, and I applaud the amazing strength you have shown in navigating these difficult seas.
The accidental OM text message forward thing was absolutely hilarious. Glad I wasn't drinking coffee at the time.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
