Wow...From bad to worse. Went with DH to D4's dance recital rehearsal last night then took her to McDonald's to celebrate since she did a lovely job. DH was cold and barely spoke a word to me. Isn't this something you would do if your spouse wasn't/isn't willing to work on your R/M?

All I know is that my patience is wearing thin and I am really not sure how to keep moving on. I thought that the MC session had given DH some motivation but I guess I am wrong. I also think he is pissed because I didn't seem enthusiastic about him buying a new motorcycle. Help me out here, how will another debt help this situation? I do not want to put my name on another debt so I can be stuck with it if things do not work out.

Help me here LBS's...what is going on? Why is he turning cold and bitter all of a sudden? I am extending the olive branch with the MC but I can't pretend that everything is "fine" because of 1 session and no real changes yet. If anything his attitude has deteriorated rapidly and it is driving it home to me that this M may not be worth working on.

This whole situation has made me so sad and depressed. Yes, I know I am the almost WAW but I am trying. I haven't given up yet but its not very hopeful at this point.

Any insight as to why I am getting this reaction?

Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.