(((((hugs)))) to you Miawip, My only advice is to try and talk to her. I haven't read the ssm book either, but I hear its great! I hope you can work this out. If everything else is going well There has got to be a way. I can't imagine going that long with no touching! My h and I do have our issues, but he is very affectionate, and if he wasn't I don't think I could be with him. Its got to bother her also, But maybe not. Has she always been like that? Did it get worse after your son was born?
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
