Shortchanged - thank you for taking the time to write your opinion, it is very accurate!! Can't believe you don't have kids! Anyway that is exactly my point. Last night didn't work out so well, he had asked me to do something for him on the computer and I just forgot, so I had to get right on it, but he took the kids upstairs and had a bath with them. Not real sexy, but he had a good time with them which is really important to him and me.
Im up at this ungodly hour because he locked himself out of the house and had to unlock the door not a happy camper am I ... he did say sorry and he loved me.. so that was a good thing. But I just started having anxiety about leaving the kids this wkend. We are going away saturday over night about 2 hours away.. first time in 5 years I am apart from the kids. And I know it's a good thing.. but when your with them 24/7 its really hard to leave.. thinking something bad could happend to me and my h and who would take care of them.. I know I have to get over it because me and H really need this time together.
As far as being tired and not wanting sex? well.. Its not always that I can tell you.. My drive is a lot lower since I had the boys. The dr. told me that your hormones change and sometimes that happens.. believe me when I tell you that I do try to get myself in the mood, sometimes I just can't. If he wants to do it at 10pm.. no im really not interested.. Im a morning person not a night person and im in bed usually by 9 the latest. The kids have me up early and im worn by then. Also, It definately is his approach sometimes to, hard and strong.. no easing into it which is better for me. But I really have to start letting him know Everything that bothers me about it. I like the house burning down comment... what's even funnier is that if it were my h talking he would say the same thing.
I do like sex with him, he always "takes care" of me in that sense, he does try to be accomdating, we just have to have some common ground and appreicate each other efforts all the way around.
Im going to check out your stitch..
Have a good day.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Not real sexy, but he had a good time with them which is really important to him and me.
not a happy camper am I ... he did say sorry and he loved me.. so that was a good thing. But I just started having anxiety about leaving the kids this wkend. We are going away saturday over night about 2 hours away.. first time in 5 years I am apart from the kids. And I know it's a good thing.. but when your with them 24/7 its really hard to leave.. thinking something bad could happend to me and my h and who would take care of them.. I know I have to get over it because me and H really need this time together.
