What you said about "Like, I need to let last summer go. Not forget, but not continue living it. It's not getting me closer to my goal, which is a close, loving R with my husband.

So I will stop being a brat, stop thinking H owes me restitution for my hard work last year. " will be a reminder for me. THANK YOU SO MUCH for letting me see the light. I don't think I am quite there yet, but almost. THANKS!!!


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?