So just a quick bit of news. W had counseling monday. Told her counselor about my request for a S and D. Told me what she told her, that it was like I slapped her in the face and shook her, when I told her I wanted a D.
In a nutshell she stated that she was willing to do whatever it will take to save our marriage.
Also that she is ready and will to goto couples counseling, if I do even if it leads to separation.
So that is good, yes, and I will do couples counseling, but it does not make me change my feelings.
I told W I need to do individual counseling also, as I have a lot of issues which I want to work through.
So I am thinking this is positive, but I am not letting the horses out of the corral.
