FIB, My girls are my #1 priorty and my biggest concern. I agree with you wholeheartedly when it comes time for my girls to find a H. I want them to know, from my example, exactly what they want in a H and how they deserve to be treated by their H. Like you I want to know and take comfort when they do get married that their H is right man for them. It is the example that we set that will allow us to sleep soundly knowing that our D's have chosen a man that we will be proud to call son.
Rightnow I have to do this on my own I have no encouragement from my W. She really just has a negative attitude towards me and says "I hope that our girls don't feel dismissed by you like you have made me feel over the years". Screw her.. I do not need her support or encouragement for me to give my girls the Dad that they deserve. With or without my W I am going to be the best damn Dad to those girls and they will know through how I treat them that they are loved, protected, beautiful, and can be secure in themselves.
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Strength and honor....and give those two girls a big hug tonite.
Already have.... I hug them and give them kisses whenever I get the chance. This sitch has not changed this about me. I let them know they are loved whenever possible..
BTW, I finished the NUTS book(thanks for the recommendation) and I just started reading "No more Christian nice guy". I actually heard the author on the radio recently and a lot of what he had to say was inline with the NUTS book, it is just from a Christian perspective....
