Bella, I think the short answer is yes this is somewhat normal. There's not telling why he's swung so much. Shoot I know I tend to be a moody guy, just read all my posts. What you need to do is not worry about the why's because you'll drive yourself crazy and never get a good answer. Just accept it that he's going through a process.
I'm not familiar with your situation, can you give me a link to it? I'll read over it and give you my insights. If you haven't started your own thread do so and use it for a journal too. By keeping to one thread you'll be able to easily follow your situation and we'll be able to better help you.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
