All and all a pretty decent day with my girl. I even accomplished cleaning my carpets this morning. For some reason I always feel better at the end of the day if I have managed to accomplish a "project".
Took daughter to swim lessons, after that me and her went and swam for a bit in the lake. Came home showered and went out to dinner at a buffet place. During dinner daughter gets all serious. And sez to me, "I miss the old days", I ask like what do you mean. She sez, "like when we are out eating like this, and you and me and mom are here" Geez did this one make me feel sad, I can tell the child is hurting because of this. I told her that I will always love her, and that mommy loves her too. Me and mommy are just going through this thing right now.
Now maybe this was a backslide, but I did say to her, "have you ever said anything like that to mom?" she sez no. I told her to feel free to say that to mom, I think she may need you to hear you say that too......... Probably pushed that one to far, dunno.....and actually dont care. I think she does need to understand how this is affecting our daughter.......
