you guys, the target is stationary - it's the same regardless of your W's actions. It's saving your marriage. That doesn't change unless you do. Let the women do their thing, it doesn't affect you right now. If you let it, you're giving away control, why do that?

go to http://www.makingherhappy.com and read the blog articles on the rules of attraction. Maybe that'll help you with your confidence. It sure helped me


We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...