LFL says the relationmship must be rock solid BEFORE the mans needs can be addressed (from his view point, there would be very little to consider rock solid).
Ugh. Cemar I did not say "before a man's needs can be addressed." And what about my needs? Soemtimes I want sex just because, it is NOT a man vs woman issue. Your problem seems to be that you do not hear what people are saying to you. It is frustrating and annoying, not to mention whiny. Very unattractive...again. Work on that why don't you? But no....
