wow, that whole thing is crazy! I would listen to the others, don't let her treat you like that. I mean let me tell you, my h isn't the best smelling kinda guy, he can't wear deordorant because he has a reaction, so sometimes has to powder them up, doesn't always work, but I certainly don't turn him down because of it.
It seems like she is putting way too many demands on you.. I could be wrong, but that is the feeling I get.
I hope your able to work it out.
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