Frankly, GeekSpeak, if my wife treated me like that I'd feel more like giving up sex for life and just masturbating rather than subject myself to that kind of treatment or ever put up with that again.
But I guess the more rational thing to do would be to continue communicating. In as calm, cool, and collected a manner as possible under the circumstances.
I like Crazy Eddie's advice regarding "your loss." While my own situation doesn't approach the severity of what happened to you that night...I'm definitely going to keep that "your loss" technique in the back of my mind for emergency use in case it ever does.
