I have not posted for a few days due to my sitch not really changing too much. The only change I have noticed is that W is spending more time with OM. She has told me that she is going to take a week off to "relax" and go on a trip (this is the week of school holidays).
I sort of suggested taking DD (tongue in cheek) but she freaked out saying "no, this is my holiday". I am just waiting for her to ask me to fund this week away, and i don't think you have to be einstein to work out who will be going with her.
I have been on a few really nice "dates" with female friends of mine, which I enjoyed. And they all understand the issues I am dealing with, and have been really supportive and fun to be around (taking my mind off things).
It is good to see you starting to go out and enjoying yourself. Who knows how long this may take? It may last years, months or may end tomorrow, you just don't know. At least by GALing and getting out to enjoy yourself, It takes your mind off things and makes it a lot easier to detach from all the hurt that is happening.
So, as I mentioned earlier, there has been no change in my sitch, W is acting a little bit more pleasant towards me (sounds like her R with OM is improving for them both, hence the good mood). And DD is doing well at school, and we have been enjoying our time together. My Family is doing well and I am doing as well as expected.
I hope things are well with you buddy,
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
