One thing I forgot. My fam and friends are telling me to file for sep. from her because of her business draining our accounts. I have been telling them that I don't think I should do anything until we sell the house. What do u guys think? I want my wife back, but I also want to cya. I have been her safety blanket for the last 11yrs. taking care of all the bills and appointments. She still goes out and spends money like nothing has changed. Getting her nails and her done, shopping. Should I file for sep. to protect myself? I am so lost these days. Should I wait until we sell the house and she gets her own place to see if she starts to miss me and me taking care of her? I'm so confused these days. I try to act like I'm ok when I'm around her, but it hurts so much. Why can't they give us another chance. Now that we know how they feel?
Oh well. What will be will be. Everything happens for a reason. I get so tired of hearing that.
take care, BM
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
