Thanks for the advice. Her family is actually an ally for me at this point. They have noticed/realized that she has changed in the last few months. At first, when she was telling them that it was my fault that she has changed they were not happy with me, but they have since realized that I am still the same preson I have always been for the last ten years, and that she is the one that has become different. They are telling her that she is making a mistake etc...
I just don't want them to frustrate any of my attempts on the DBing side of things.