And the question was if I talked to my boss about changing my hours so the custody arrangement that she is thinking about will work.
I'm curious what your answer to this was. I'm hoping something like this:
"Please don't concern yourself with my work arrangements."
And nothing more. You could go on, "Once the custody schedule is finalized, I will take care of whatever work schedule issues or child care as needed." But that's really giving her too much info. Telling her that you talked to your boss is enabling her version of the future, and if you didn't you are inviting an argument.
