Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. One of the things FIL said to me a month ago was, "geez, with 5 or 6 people close to her saying, what are you thinking? you would hope that would change her mind".
Nope. I do believe it is doing more harm than good at this point. It seems anyone or thing that would suggest to her that she shouldn't do this just becomes a challenge she has to prove wrong.
re; sans tyler. Everything I have read or been told by the pros on this subject say the same thing. It's not about me. It was present before me so getting rid of me is just a quick fix. It sucks because I wish I could point that out to her but we know she wouldn't see it at this point anyway.
I did re-visit the financial agreement/arrangement. I'll post more in a few.
