Rob - I have nothing useful to add right now, just to say I'm so sorry to read this. I'm glad to see you're ont panicing. I got 2 bombs as well - after my first one in Spet 05 I did the begging, pleading, suicide thoughts etc etc. After the 2nd one in April 06 I then found the DB book.
Just to say 2 bombs doesn't mean the end.
Will be back as soon as I can some up with something useful ... in the meantime if you feel up to it how about sharing a little more?
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.