You are right when you say there is nothing my H can say or do if he is telling the truth or indeed if he is lieing. I can't seem to figure out what I need to be able to drop this either so you do make a lot of valid points.
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He chose me. He chose us. We almost lost everything, but instead have the chance to create a marriage that we never even gave the effort to-- until we knew what we could lose. That's all that matters to me.
What matters to you?
You are so very right, thank you for making me think about this point. I have nearly lost him once and it hurt like hell and its not that I want to lose him now, I suppose I just want to know he's truly mine or something and I can see I'm going the wrong way about it right now because of the pain I felt when I found the letter.
Thank you again for such a thought provoking post.
