She is in counseling/therapy. I don't know how much it's helping, I guess there really is no way to know. The therapist seems to lean towards the best solution for her right now is to D and set up a life sans tyler.
I could be wrong. It just seems that our worst "episodes" coincide with her IC sessions.
It's tough. I'm so far over my head on so many fronts here yet what choice do I have?
Saturday the subject of me sleeping on the couch came up. Her dad really doesn't like it and has said so. He comes from a position of the father/husband should be respected. What message does this send to the kids? The primary provider should be treated like a pack animal? (his words).
W was pissed that her father had said this to her, without my knowledge. W said that she had offered to sleep elsewhere, that it was my choice.
I listened. I wasn't going to say anything. She said again, it's your choice, I offered to sleep in another room, you chose this.
I said, "what kind of man would I be if I made it so you slept on the couch? what message would that send to my kids? how would that tell my son he should treat women? or my daughters how they should be treated?, this is what I should do."
