You're getting some great advice here ... from your weekend sounds like you're pulling away and I see this as a good thing. To me, it looks like you're going into yourself in order to work out what to do next ... you know the DB way, but you also have your own needs, I went through a bit of this too ... knowing things had to change, but not being 100% sure of the right thing to do ... but in this case I think the last 2 posters have got it spot on ... food for thought.
And onto the flooding - no, nothing down my way, but I live on a hill in the North Downs, the area is pretty safe from flooding, thankfully. I've seen the pics on the news though - looks awful!! Any ducks gone past your window?
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