Yeah tell me about it. I have to get a job making so much in order to pay childcare and live. I've done the temp thing and trying on my own. So for nothing. Really frustrating. I really don't like the idea of my kids in daycare but at this point I need to do it. I need to know no matter what I can take care of me and my kids.

Yeah we have a joint account but since he's left he opened his own as well and that's where his check is now deposited.

Yeah I do it on both though I try to put a half way decent spin on the bad. Sometimes I can't though.

Course the only thing he took from his first marriage was his son and clothes. His son has long since moved back with his mom but...


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07