I am kind of at an impasse here. I am not sure what I should be doing about separation. I don't think that I should bring it up, but I don't want her thinking that I did not give her the opportunity. I think I am going to ask MIL to ask wife if she feels that she is getting enough space from me. Wife has mentioned to her mother that she needs space. I have not been contacting her at all and simply wait for her to contact me if I need to talk to her about something specific. We work different schedules so it is as if we are physically separated most of the time. We do see eachother on the weekend. The last thing I want to do is bring up the separation if that is not what she wants right now. What advice do you have for me regarding the separation?
Also, do you guys have any suggestions as to how much involvement her family should have in this situation? They are more concerned about her personally at this point because there has been such a change in her. I just don't want them pushing her away farther than she already is.
