BM I am not the person to be asking probably. As I've enabled my wife's spending for many, many years. You see what happened to me when I pulled the reins back. But each situation is different...maybe tell her you guys need to have a meeting regarding finances and make sure you stick to only the facts and that conversation?
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
