My lawyer's secretary just called me. She was livid. She said that H has three lawyers working on the divorce and they are trying to keep us off-balance via delays in sending in requested information and/or not at all (and say they did).
For instance, she called H's law office today at my request to find out about H's W2's for 2006. They told her, with an attitude, that I already had that information.
She has been a legal secretary for many years. She said that in her opinion I should not compromise my original settlement request in any way. She said if it was her, she would go after H with both guns blazing.
I am very glad now that I did not agree to H's settlement offer yesterday.
I cannot believe that I was married to that man for 20 years. (I also can't believe that I was naiive enough to think he would mention our upcoming anniversary yesterday ..)
Thanks to all of ya'll for your wonderful support.
