When I pulled my head out of my ass my husband had been gone 8 months. It has now been about 18 months that I have been DBing.
18 +8
26
That's more than 2 years so decide whether or not you're gonna try to save your marriage and do the necessary work to change YOURSELF if you ever want to see a change in HER.
NM...I have been at this a long time too and even though H has said in the past it is over, I am still hanging on because there is always hope. I have been at this for 28 months. That is a long time but it is worth it. Don't give up just because she said it was over.
