I am done. I no longer want to work it out between us.
Let me break it down for you:
She wanted to work it out.
That means her mind can still be changed back.
Unless of course, you quit.
Let me tell you something, NM. It doesn't mean a damn thing how long you have been separated.
When I pulled my head out of my ass my husband had been gone 8 months. It has now been about 18 months that I have been DBing.
18 +8
26
That's more than 2 years so decide whether or not you're gonna try to save your marriage and do the necessary work to change YOURSELF if you ever want to see a change in HER.