Tiny Ray of Light....IV

[NMHurting]

You mean the typos Amy?

Sorry - just trying to lighten the mood

You know, I almost wish I'd have a MLC right now. I could stand a little selfishness.

[osu43130]

Focus on being the best single dad I can possibly be for now.

That is a given and would expect nothing less from you. Now what else are you going to do?

[AmyC]

Ya'll are so thick.

I am done. I no longer want to work it out between us.

Let me break it down for you:

She wanted to work it out.

That means her mind can still be changed back.

Unless of course, you quit.

Let me tell you something, NM.
It doesn't mean a damn thing how long you have been separated.

When I pulled my head out of my ass my husband had been gone 8 months. It has now been about 18 months that I have been DBing.

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That's more than 2 years so decide whether or not you're gonna try to save your marriage and do the necessary work to change YOURSELF if you ever want to see a change in HER.

[still.struggling]

When I pulled my head out of my ass my husband had been gone 8 months. It has now been about 18 months that I have been DBing.

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That's more than 2 years so decide whether or not you're gonna try to save your marriage and do the necessary work to change YOURSELF if you ever want to see a change in HER.

NM...I have been at this a long time too and even though H has said in the past it is over, I am still hanging on because there is always hope. I have been at this for 28 months. That is a long time but it is worth it. Don't give up just because she said it was over.

[osu43130]

Nice Post Amy........

NMH,
Just remember Amy came from the other side of the picture....

It all boils down to your choice and what you want to do with your M.

[NMHurting]

Ya'll are so thick.

Yup I am. Me and Jazz come from similiar material :P

Let me break it down for you:

She wanted to work it out.

That means her mind can still be changed back.

Unless of course, you quit.

I'm not quitting. But she is. I will continue to focus on being better because I need to for me. But I just don't see it coming back around at this point. I just have to focus on me and pray. But I need to come to terms with she may never walk in that door again.

[still.struggling]

I'm not quitting. But she is.

Stop saying that. How do you know she is quitting? Just because she sent you an email saying she was? You don't know what she is thinking. What she says and means could be two different things. Are we going to have to blast you like we did Jazz to wake him up?

[osu43130]

But I need to come to terms with she may never walk in that door again.

Just do us all a favor and leave the door open.

[NMHurting]

Feel free and blast all you want. Sadly, I'll know she will do it just to spite me. Her pride won't let her change her mind at this stage.

[osu43130]

Feel free and blast all you want

Not blasting anything.....But you also just reiterated why you should leave the door open....

Her pride won't let her change her mind at this stage.