Remember they're your friends and they just want you to feel better as soon as possible. They see you suffering and they want to help it end. It's not that they don't care about your family, it's that they want you to feel better. Take what they say as good intentioned, and let them know where you are with your goals, hopes and desires for your family. They'll support you if they know that will make you happier than giving up.

Family may be the same way. My family is actually really supportive. They love my W, and want her to come back almost as much as I do. Fortunately my friends understand where I'm coming from too, so they're very supportive too.

How's the darkness treating you? Getting used to it yet? \:\)


We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...