Thanks to all my friends here

[LisaLost]

Hey all,

I posted some new pics and a slide show of my recent trip with the kids and my H. We went as friends. I am not going to do anything other than rebuild our foundation first, he was told this. He has been a different person since he has seen the therapist- right now he is going twice a week.I know b/c he told me this and the therapist asked me to come in with him for a few sessions in a few weeks. I asked her if she is pro-marriage and she is and she said that she counsels along with a preacher here too- which just so happens to be one of our pastors. So my husband is comfortable with her. He told me he has never realized that he didn't have to live with his demons of the past and is learning to let go of his anger against his mom. He actually is going to call her and tell her about his forgiveness , but we both know whe won't care but that is a HUGE step for him. He is also going to rebuild his relationship with his dad. He seems to be getting better, he says this therapy thing is something everyone should do- I told him it is a long road but the pay off is great if he just sticks with it. he sounds really excited,

He wants us back- I am putting the delay on that and am still working with my lawyer. Just in case. He wants us to spend family time together and it worked out good. Just the two of us went to dinner last night and he picked me up and brought me home. He said he was going to woo me again, lol

We'll see what happens- expectations are low and I am unsure of what I want now but I will take my time this time.


Lisa